And often paid by the children. Having a 14 month old, I can’t imagine not having her father. MrR is really hands on and with us being older and retired our ‘job’ is rearing her, teaching her, playing with her and we take turns watching her when the other has something to do (farm paperwork, housekeeping, bils) but she has us all the time.
He sounds like a wonderful man! Your child is fortunate to have the both of you so involved in caring and loving her. Your husband’s example will also be a strong influence in the kind of man she marries.