Nice!
In general, women are not worth the headache these days. The second something doesn’t go their way in the relationship they screw some strange peter and then blame it on you for not meeting emotional needs.
Now if the man does that, he is lower than a dog.
Two things that helped: she had been through about 3 separate nasty custody fights with her ex over one kid. She didn’t want a 4th battle with me, so we split custody of the kids. She has daughter, I have son.
A Sophie’s choice.
The other thing is, she knew how pissed off I was both in general about life and with the cheating etc situation specifically.
She also knew if I got f**ked over badly enough, I’d go fly to Iraq and join the Kurds fighting ISIS. I already told her if I got screwed over, I’d leave. I got load-bearing vest, other suitable clothing and equipment. I’m loaded for bear. I’d leave, never come back, and she’d not get a penny.