I signed up for the reserves after 9/11, and ended up not reenlisting for family reasons. I got an honorable discharge. I’m really glad to have done it and was proud to serve, but honestly, one weekend a month and two weeks a year under safe circumstances is just not the same as active duty.
I don’t think I should be marching in a parade next to someone who had bullets flying at them in Iraq or Vietnam. I’m proud of what I did, but there’s a difference between doing a little and doing a lot. I was paid fairly for what I did and got good benefits while I was serving. I’m not owed any more.
Not calling me a veteran doesn’t diminish my service. It just recognizes the reality that there are different levels of service.
No, it is not the same. Especially, living under UCMJ at all times and basically being a piece of equipment in inventory for .gov.