[rfreedom4u]

We got married because we are in love. We were married by a JoP and took the standard vows. As to my health I feel fine. I just finished the first part of a physical and so far so good.

[novemberslady]

It's very hard to be someone's caregiver. Your own health suffers from the stress.

I notice you say love in the present tense.
If that's true, you would still be with her in your heart and soul, no matter where you went.

I've walked away from people myself (not because of them having health issues), and can tell you that the guilt never goes away.

I wish I was smarter, and could tell you what to do.