No you are wrong. Do not support it in any way. It is time to abandon any attempt to placate these cretins. Abandon them and take your money. Do not shop or donate to entities that give to them. Make it a mission.
On the other hand, why let them win?
“BSA has made their decision; now let them enforce it!”
My Mission is to remain in Scouting and make it a safe place for another generation, even if membership is shrinking.
Did you know that 11 of the 12 men who walked on the moon were Scouts? What has changed here? Straight men abandoning the organization and the troops and the kids?
Frankly there have ALWAYS been peculiar adult leaders. Now they can be openly perverse. and monitored by vigilant principled adults.
Meanwhile my GS troop will earn service hours and awards this year and is planning and money earning for a trip to England to an international scout gathering in 2 years- my second. They are outstanding role models to many younger kids. They know how to camp ..... and what to do to survive if the doctor is 12 hours away and the power goes out for 3 months.
I stay the course.
Good luck to your children on their activities