I made a good living selling computer equipment in the late 80’s and early 90’s in a call center at an early superstore.
One of my biggest customers was an AA district south of Dallas.
I finally met a coach and tech director in ‘92. Found out that they all thought I was black. To them I look fairly white.
Sales died out within a week.
I am as mixed race as any mongrel in the pound, but just wasn't the “correct” race.
Great story.
I had just the opposite experience.
Despite being an Irish Catholic, with a good summer tan I can pass for a middle easterner easily, especially with a full black beard.
I used to go to a junkyard run by three Jewish brothers. They somehow assumed I was a kosher buddy, always treated me like a long lost relative. I always paid cash so they never saw my name.
According to Nancy Giles, she is not considered 'black' by dark skinned, racist, illiterate thugs because she's not a dark skinned, racist, illiterate thug.
So, in the final analysis it has nothing to do with skin color. It is a cultural thing. So y'alls bettuh start t' talkin' ghetto. Or day gonna whip yo azz.