That said, I was on the first board without developer input. It was an eye opener and I can see how things can get out of hand quickly i.e. one person kept pushing for a rule specifying no one could have a car more than 9 years old. Fortunately inane proposals were strongly out voted but I can now see how these benign HOAs can become tyrannosaurus rex on steroids.
Good luck to you, make sure you know your rights.
That's INSANE! But there's always a Democrat somewhere...