“Are you a woman who wants to poach another woman’s husband? Try telling him this: If you were my husband I would never let you do the laundry.”
Nonsense. Just tell him you will treat him with respect, acknowledge that he’s a man and never publicly mock him. No need to even bring up the laundry.
I would advise any young man in the USA to be very careful about marriage. The culture that most American women have been brought up in is a horror show, and the legal system is sure as hell not on your side.
See if you can find a nice church-going girl far from the big urban centers.
In my area Anglo guys pair up nicely with newcomers from south/Central America; the former have a traditional mate who values children, while the latter aren’t treated as burros.
Works out well, and there is no shortage of those women; if you want an American girl you can go a bar and watch all the aging umarried childless man-haters drink themselves into stupors, passed around between the divorced American guys hanging out there.
I’m horrible...