Get a family law type attorney.
When ya have family members not capable of making common sense decisions, and they can endanger themselves and others, not to mention making reckless decisions with assets, it’s time to help them out and take control for their own good.
Not a happy pleasant thing to do, but the consequences of doing nothing can get extremely ugly.
BTW, just remember, there are hordes of people out there who wear nice suits, just waiting to take advantage of them, and loot what they have. No joke. It’s why predator lending laws, power of attorney laws were enacted, etc.
Absolutely.
A lawyer specializing in elderly law is needed in cases like this.