I can sympathize. Too many people are sucked into the lies they are told through what they "experience" that they cannot stop and try to discern if what they are being told is the truth IS really the truth. When questioning a new evangelist that offered "holy laughter" in his revival services but a perverted Gospel, I was told sharply to, "Touch not God's anointed!". These people were so convinced by what they experienced that they couldn't see through the deception. We must always watch and pray. God's word is given to us to guide us into all truth. IT is our touchstone.
Funny how that seems to be the stock answer when confronted.
That's a red flag for sure.