This is blog pimping, and there isn’t really a good excuse for it, but that aside, you aren’t being discerning in your understanding of the many problems with homosexuality. If something hurts a person physically, mentally, socially, and/or spiritually, then it is sin.
There is no doubt that homosexuality does that. God has revealed that homosexuality is sin, but observation also shows it to be deadly, harmful behavior.
Christianity is about the grace of God offered to those who when wrong admit and confess their sin and receive forgiveness for it. Those who try to attain God’s favorable judgment by adhering to some ‘code of ethics’ are doomed to both failure and separation from God. It’s only in forgiveness that we have any hope.
So, to attempt to explain away the harm done by homosexuality is thinking at the level of fantasy. It is also an appeal to living by a ‘code’, and with this code one pretends that a harmful behavior isn’t harmful.
“What I’m doing is just fine.” exclaims the homosexual. The facts, along with God, say otherwise. It’s like arguing that alcoholism is just fine, that no one gets hurt. But they do. The homosexual does. Others do. The relationship with God is absent due to dishonesty.
Lots of people can say all kinds of things about homosexuality, but they cannot say that it’s just another healthy, wholesome lifestyle and everyone should do it.
Addendum -
Zotted Queer Apologist Blog Pimp now most desperately in need of Butthurt consolation.