If men did the first, women would do the second.
But, I see the failure even here. Men disrespecting their wives by ogling other women, guilty or not responses on FR. That woman let herself go, etc.
When men misbehave and fail, neglecting their roles and responsibilities, women will do likewise.
I think the most important part of your post is that it requires daily refreshment. Seek God’s support and guidance, daily.
Not necessarily. Either can disobey the Lord on their roles. There is no guarantee.
The point is that when one starts on their role, it is hoped the other will pick up on their role. Sometimes counseling can help, sometimes not. It depends also on whether the other is willing to listen and make an effort also.
Either the man or the woman can initiate to get their relationship out of the crazy cycle by going to the Lord to do their own role in the relationship. Doing so enhances their chances to get out of the crazy cycle but it does not guarantee it.
But, I see the failure even here. Men disrespecting their wives by ogling other women, guilty or not responses on FR. That woman let herself go, etc.
Men also disrespecting their wives by being workaholics.
No woman is going to be respecting a man who throws her under the bus to anyone and anything else that comes along to take up his time.