Like wanting a contract concubine and house servant who also holds a full-time job?
No no no, Tax-chick. You have it all wrong. You must be a typical feminazi American woman with no kids and a cushy job you took from a man. (Snicker, snicker. I know better, by the way.)
These women really do love these American guys. It’s not about money or a permanent visa or citizenship. Or taking half his paycheck and sending it to her family in Chiapas. It’s about uh, love. Yeah...love. That’s it.
Sure, he’s only met the woman twice but proposed anyway. And yeah, the guy is 54 and has never married. Or dated anyone. And maybe he does have some serious control issues. Oh, and he lives in a dank basement apartment near an industrial park. But it’s about love. Somewhat. Mostly it’s about serving him and making his family and coworkers finally believe that he can get a woman even though he’s kinda gross and creepy.
The language and cultural barrier only make the relationship more mysterious and romantic. He hands her a pan and she *knows” without him saying a word, that he wants dinner. He gently guides her to the broom closet or the bedroom and she just knows what he needs. Doing the job no American woman will do.
That’s what it’s all about. I think, anyway.
Run coop! Run like you’ve never run before!! :-)