Hate to speculate on any marriage. Marriage is rough, and not for the faint of heart. The strains of public life would either make you or break you, but more often break you.
Doesn’t help if you subscribe to the more liberal, godless philosophy. Sometimes the only thread my own marriage hangs on is my faith in God and that’s it.
A friend of mine recently told me he got engaged and all I could think of what to say was “my condolences” LOL!
Sorry, meant to ping you to my post 84.