You are not alone in all this. Many of us have stepped outside the box of this world and have started to take a good look at what we do here, and why do we do it.
I have questioned many things over my lifetime as to where did all these traditions and rituals came from as they approached each season, whether it be the spring, the fall, or the winter.
It soon becomes a personal revelation that you wish to share with others. But some others will take it so personal that they will revile and attack your character, your lifestyle, and even your upbringing. It comes with the territory, so to speak.
Many have asked me, what the heck is wrong with you. It’s for the kids, can’t the kids have some fun for “Gods sake”?
Then I ask, what is “Gods sake”?
Is it to put His New Wine into this old wineskin of the world, or is it to separate ourselves from the ways of this world?
Many have made up their minds on what they are going to do, and no matter how hard you try to open up another little window in their mind to perhaps look at these things in another light, they will still insist that it is you that has the problem.
But keep in mind, that we can sing and bring good tidings of joy and goodwill towards mankind everyday of the year, and most of my favorite carols are sung throughout the whole year ... smiles
Best wishes to you all, and may everyday be sacred and holy as you rise for the occasion.
Thank you for your thoughtful reply and kind words. God Bless you!