I think the doctors are required to ask, but how can we be required to answer???
my answer will be to start grilling them about their security choices, and then i will start asking about their malpractice claims, and how many patients they have injured or killed due to their own mistakes (iatrogenic deaths) and start turning the screws on them until they clam up.
if you don’t feel like working that hard, answer tht you do not discuss your personal security requirements with anyone outside your house.