My husband called Selective services when we got the second letter and did speak to someone. We were told we had to register our son, regardless of his medical condition. Good idea to verify first the request for a copy of the B.C. i would think if they send out letters to those who have turned 18, it’s because they already have that info.
My niece, who also has a girly name, did NOT get a threatening letter. We live in the same state.