If people choose to fight, it should be somewhere else. It is far better to fight on the enemies ground than on your own.
Some may choose to defend other’s homes, but if they come to yours, be mild and take as many names and as much intelligence as you can get. I do not think they have the will to use torture and the gulags ... just yet...
You first, and report back to the rest of us on how that approached worked out for ya ...