El Gato, I am so very, very sorry. I know this isn’t the diagnosis that anyone wanted. I am going to refrain from giving any sort of advice simply because I haven’t been in this position and don’t know what to say. All I can do is pray and pray HARD. Whatever the decision your family makes will be made out of love and with God’s great guidance. That isn’t glib... In my own life if I don’t know what to do or if I am faced with something so overwhelming, I ask God to guide me to do what is best and for Him. I rely on him because I couldn’t rely on my own knowledge or experience. God Bless and hugs, Mom
Thanks “Mom”. But it’s not my family. The grandmother was a little girl in my neighborhood when I was a kid. She’s about 8 years younger than I am, but has more grandkids. As I mentioned above, she’s already lost one that was born very premature and died 20 minutes later. That was her daughter’s daughter, Keegan is the son of her son.
The area we lived in is called Havelock, once it was an independent town, mostly industrial/bluecollar. We Havelockers try to stick together, no matter how far we’ve roamed.
I can’t imagine having to make those decisions. I am somewhat on eggshels, since my own grandson is due about the same time as Keegan was, and will probably have the same middle name.