Ya’ can’t find an acceptable mate from among 300 million individuals here in your Mother Country; one who you can actually see and evaluate? But you’re already half-crocked over an unseen, unknown quantity from the other side of the world whose very location and sphere of living, and at least 50% of her ethnicity weights the odds heavily on the side of her being “trouble” to an American Christian?
Consideration of the myriad ways in which this scenario could result in great, severe and long-lasting misery for you, leads me to visualize you as the poster boy for the concept: “Fools Rush in Where Angels Fear to Tread.” And to my mind, you are also a strong contender for poster boy of, “He asked for it” and for “You Brought on Yourself,”
Wow, what a fearful adventure-less life you must lead!
With all due respect, your advice is horrible and rather narrow-minded for my taste.
I guess a Pakistani could use the same or similar argument for someone who wants to marry outside the family.
I have traveled most of the world and live outside the USA now for nearly 20 years, and NO, not because I hate my country or anything (Although I do hate the current government, but they won't be around much longer.)
The world has a lot of very nice people in it - not all of them carry an American passport.
I have not been with an American woman for over 20 years and am not sorry and do not miss them... well, besides my mother and sisters.
There are many men, and most of my friends who have foreign wives and are VERY happy. My American friends with American wives are about 60% divorced - my American friends with foreign wives are only about 10% divorced. Only one was married for his money and got screwed out of a bit of it... but please tell me that the doesn't happen in the USA...
Some years ago a few sites popped up such as: AmericanWomenSuck.com, http://nomarriage.com and even http://boycottamericanwomen.blogspot.com/2011/12/american-women-suck.html (Boycott American Women!)... while I am not a hater of American women, I do not miss them either.
Again FRiend, good luck.