Shove it, you stupid oaf.
Oh, you really do get volatile. I suspect I outed your Mediterranean heritage, or maybe you are sensitive to having your error pointed out.
I meant no harm. As to the first, just a lucky guess based on your behavior. As to your sensitivity, all progress starts with telling the truth.
I wish you the best here in our country. Try to adapt to our ways and leave the vitriol back in the old country.