Plenty of blame to go around for both sexes IMHO.
Men don’t act like men anymore, being fearful of both responsibility and accountability.
Women are just as bad, expecting perfection from their men, but constantly redefining what that perfection means.
Oh, sure there are plenty of examples of men and woman who behave correctly even though all of popular culture encourages them to behave differently.
I do know one thing, if our men (a growing number of men from the West) don’t start acting like men again, they will eventually be subjugated by men from other (primarily Asia) cultures who do.
As for our women, they had better start supporting our men again instead of constantly undermining them, be it from infantilizing them or by becoming a shrew. If our women don’t recognize this soon, they might not like the version of man who replaces the current western model.
amen......