Exactly! Children learn emotional security from their parents in how they treat or mistreat them.
I have been helpless before and completely dependent on others. It is a horrible state to be in. I wanted my daughter and my wife to know that I would always do what I could to defend them. I thought of soldiers in Viet Nam after Tet and Walter Cronkite saying we couldn't win. Who wants to die for that? Who will defend those that gave their lives? Who will defend my daughter if the justice system takes control? Someone that kills my daughter or wife that gets 8 or 10 years will die by my hand. They cannot be allowed to live. I will give my life for that purpose. This has been in my mind since the birth of my daughter. I cannot imagine my daughter losing her life to scum and someone saying time will heal the wound. Who will speak for my daughter?
They will never see it coming. I would die of heart failure knowing he had 3 hots and a cot while my daughter was gone.