About 6 years or so ago I confided to a friend of mine about my planning. He said those 5 words.
I thought about it for a second and said “if you show up here empty handed I’ll shoot you before you can knock on the door.”
In the subsequent years he’s gotten his rocks in a pile because he knew I was dead serious.
I’d tell the guy to bring a gallon of diesel. When thy ask why, I’d tell ‘em that I’m not willing to waste my own fuel to run the backhoe to bury their sorry dead ass.