A very good friend of mine married early (teen) and divorced, then married again and divorced (both were doctors.)
She married a third time, very happily finally. It took her a long time to choose wisely.
She’s a brilliant woman, just took a long time to find the right match.
Her experience taught her tons and now she helps others.
Sometimes, people are just not lucky, or so blessed to find true love. I have been married for 25 years, but others are really just not so lucky. Things sometimes just don’t work out, no matter what. Could be an immature marriage, a death, an illness, whatever.
My own poor dad was married FIVE (count ‘em) five times. It just got to be sad at the end. He could not make a woman love him. He’d get into marriage for stars in the eyes foolish reasons, and then it would last about 3 or 4 years, and then just fizzle. No abuse, no cheating ...just no love. He was just seriously unlucky. I felt badly for him at the end, as he eventually died with no one at his side.
So, people, try not to be so judgemental. Perhaps the fact that YOU found someone, and managed to hang onto them was due more to Divine Providence than your own efforts.