“If I don’t believe in God I have to pretend I don’t have dreams? That makes no sense to me.”
Spirited: What ‘makes no sense’ is your selective rejection of the unseen dimension. On one hand you choose (free will) to reject the supernatural God and your own soul because neither one can be sensed in any way. On the other hand you choose (free will) to accept the existence of your unseen mind and its abilities, ie., dreams.
You disbelieve in the Holy Spirit because He cannot be sensed yet you accept the reality of dreams experienced during times of unconsciousness. And yet if asked to provide sensory evidence of your dreams you could not do so but nevertheless expect to be believed.
But I DO see my dreams. You make no sense to me.