Exactly.
The Economy is in total disaster around here.
I once paid two months on a ladies power bill to keep her lights from being turned off. I knew the lady she had two young kids why would I not help her I could without it causing me discomfort.
I did not hide if from my wife I just simply never thought to tell her. When wife found out she asked how was lady doing. NOT was I sleeping with her or were those my kids.
Marriage is supposed to be about trust. If you dont trust your spouse or she dont trust you, Get out. Life is to short.
I believe you, as I have no reason not to. I forget to tell my wife stuff all of the time, but there is no way that my giving money to another woman would have slipped my mind! I bought and installed a car battery for an unmarried lady just last week, took my 18 y.o. daughter with me, and told my wife beforehand. That way, she never has reason to doubt, or be surprised by "revelations".