There are some European carriers that seem to realize most of their travelers are men and select their flight attendants accordingly. I recently was on a series of flights into, around, and back from Greece on Aegean Airlines. The flight attendants all looked like 19 year old aspiring models (e.g. quasi-anorexic) but very pretty and polite. Not much good in a flight emergency, but in such an event you're about 99.9% unlikely to get any flotation use out of your seat cushion anyway.
I know what some of you are going to say ... yes, I'm a sexist swine.
Vast majority of male stewards on any US carrier are gay. Have a relative who’s worked with em for over 40 years. Knows what she is talking about.