My daughter grew up with the pink-princess phenomenon. She is the girliest girl you can imagine, and at 23 this jaw-droppingly beautiful young Christian lady has boxes of makeup and hair-care products, tons of clothes in Lilly Pulitzer pink, and is always perfectly manicured.
She can also drive a tractor or a six-horse stock trailer, run power tools, break a horse, ride to hounds, handle a shotgun, and get a very nice placement with the handgun she carries. She can do hard physical labor all day, in all weather, and in her last job she ran a crew of tough men. She can handle her liquor and her finances. In other words, she’s like her mother and grandmothers.
So in general I think being a pink princess is just fine, and the people who want to discourage girls from being feminine are leftists.
Sounds like your daughter is a GRITS (Girls Raised in the South).