Did you notice the lady in the background of the graduation picture? Her complexion is very similar to BHO’s in that picture. I’m referencing the golden tone. Could be a product of lighting in the room. Also, she has an odd expression for the occasion...almost looks angry. Maybe it’s just me.
Thanks for sharing. Noticed the author described BHO as distant when talking about his mother. I have often thought he talked about her more like a brother talks about a sister.
Family situation was very unusual, IMHO.