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To: MindBender26; Daniel T. Zanoza
People are born. People live. People die. Accept it.

Cool. Can I decide when you die?

17 posted on 10/24/2010 11:46:51 AM PDT by Grizzled Bear (Does not play well with others)
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To: Grizzled Bear
Can you decide when I will die?

No, but I will.

Read the article again.

My mom had bone cancer in both of her upper legs. She was in a wheel chair so it was hard for her to travel. She was also on bottled oxygen. After several months of consideration she decided not to take any more chemotherapy or radiation.

HER MOTHER MADE A CLEAR AND CONCIOUS DECISION TO DISCONTINUE MEDICAL CARE THAT WAS NOT WORKIING

The only thing she needed was something to control her pain, because the cancer was not going to go away.

HE MOTHER WANTED PAIN CONTROL BECAUSE THEY KNEW THEY WERE NOT GOING TO DEFEAT THE CANCER.

On September the first, I took her to see her oncologist for the last time. They decided together that Hospice could provide her with the care she needed from here on out. On that day my mom was of sound mind and doing well.

ON THAT DAY, HER MOTHER WAS OF SOUND MIND, WAS IN PAIN. SHE AND HER CANCER DOCTOR AGREED THAT FURTHER CANCER-FIGHTING TREATMENT WAS USELESS AND HOSPICE WOULD PROVIDE THE PAIN-CONTROL CARE. SHE WAS “DOING WELL,” BUT SHE WAS ALSO DYING AND EVERYONE HAD AGREED THE CANCER HAD WON, IT WAS SOON GOING TO KILL HER.

Since her mother was of sound mind when she made her medical decisions, who is the daughter to interfere/

Finally, the comment that had Hospice not been involved, her mother would be alive today. With all respect to the daughter, does she forget about the cancer?

Pray her mother is NOT alive, facing the intractable agony of terminal bone cancer pain.

26 posted on 10/24/2010 1:58:23 PM PDT by MindBender26 (Fighting the "con" in Conservatism on FR since 1998.)
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