As far as I'm concerned, "Separation of Church and State" is a liberal invention, and I'd only use it to throw it back in their face.
Then again, why the hell CAN you get married in a court house? Marriage IS a tenet of religion.
while there is no right to marry, there is the 14th amendment which promises equal protection under the law
All that means is a gay guy would have as much right to marry a woman as does the next guy....if it was a right.
Finally someone is zeroing in on the real issue. I might not hyperventilate after all, although I still have my paper bag handy since everyone else is still arguing over the placement of the deck chairs while the ship goes down.