That’s fair enough. Its just that the point we’re all making is that by using the coupon, he may well be trying to extend his finances for the date beyond what he otherwise could. It shouldn’t necessarily be taken as a slight.
Now if he drives up for the date in a $100,000 car and then tries to drop a coupon to pay a $50-$75 bill at the restaurant, yes, he’s a cheap jerk.
How do you think he paid for the car?
Somewhere I’ve got a picture I took of a Lotus (serious $$$) at the drive-thru window at Taco Bell.
If I knew & did back then what I know now - coupons included - I’d be independently wealthy at 40.