This new idea of "haters" being bad is just a liberal "argument" against opposition.
By the way...
...you sound more knowledgeable when you write, "Hatred is Wrong..." ("Hatred" has been the most accepted noun while "hate" has usually been a verb.) The melding of ghetto slang into the accepted Standard English can taint otherwise good arguments.
I realize that language is alive, and it--and dictionaries--constantly change; but while there is still a delineation of class in language, it sometimes helps your stance to use the more intellectual choice.