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To: Nowhere Man

Still single for the moment, unemployed and not too happy right now....and today I turn 42.

No dates to speak of lately, BUT I DID enjoy a nice time out recently with my best friend Laurie, back a few weeks ago.(And Laurie HAS ‘been there’ for me recently—like NO ONE else has, during this hard time for me...)

Not long ago, we had a breakfast together and saw a movie(that she had a part in),—JUST the two of us- together for over 4 hours on a Saturday earlier this month. Her husband WAS aware of things, and evidently did NOT mind, as he knew “nothing would happen” between us....and of course nothing did “happen”—just two Christian, caring, VERY close friends spending some meaningful time out together.

Nonetheless...it was the NICEST time I have EVER had with ANY woman I have ever did something together with. The few dates I have been on with women were NOWHERE NEAR as enjoyable or meaningful as our time together. and..RIGHT after that happened...I WAS able to sleep pretty normally again...after a MONTH of not being able to sleep, after the mess with my job last month.

And she has since taken me and my sister out with her a couple of Fridays ago, to play pool and arcade games together.

I DID “speak” with a couple of women on-line at Eharmony, but it NEVER has “gone anywhere. Few, if ANY other women out there, who are even reasonably attractive and moral and intelligent,and single—see me as Laurie does, or are willing to “put up with me or try and understand me” so...I am still alone, but NOT as alone As I used to be...

I AM on facebook, under my own name, and I am as “popular there” with my “old crowd from school” as I was before—which is to say STILL the outcast...as I figured WOULD be the case. Laurie has warned me NOT to “say too much” there...as it could “haunt me”.


81 posted on 09/30/2009 9:47:48 PM PDT by Rca2000 ( "They all got what they wanted...but NO ONE seems very happy".)
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To: Rca2000
Still single for the moment, unemployed and not too happy right now....and today I turn 42.

Yeah, I understand, I've been there. Right now, I'm very busy jobwise, one good thing about auto parts, there is always a demand for them. BTW, Happy Birthday, I hope things will turn out better.

No dates to speak of lately, BUT I DID enjoy a nice time out recently with my best friend Laurie, back a few weeks ago.(And Laurie HAS ‘been there’ for me recently—like NO ONE else has, during this hard time for me...)

Not long ago, we had a breakfast together and saw a movie(that she had a part in),—JUST the two of us- together for over 4 hours on a Saturday earlier this month. Her husband WAS aware of things, and evidently did NOT mind, as he knew “nothing would happen” between us....and of course nothing did “happen”—just two Christian, caring, VERY close friends spending some meaningful time out together.

Nonetheless...it was the NICEST time I have EVER had with ANY woman I have ever did something together with. The few dates I have been on with women were NOWHERE NEAR as enjoyable or meaningful as our time together. and..RIGHT after that happened...I WAS able to sleep pretty normally again...after a MONTH of not being able to sleep, after the mess with my job last month.

And she has since taken me and my sister out with her a couple of Fridays ago, to play pool and arcade games together.


I'm glad you have a good friend in Laurie, plus it is a good way to unwind. You need to unwind for a little while, you have been through a lot. My buddy just got married in June, his mother passed away in April, but there are times we all get together and unwind ourselves. The downside is his wife's house, he's very busy working on it, the floor leans a little and he is trying to make it level. I wonder if he has foundation problems. He shuttles between here (Pittsburgh) and Ohio, just north of Wheeling, WV.

I got to tackle my right-rear rocker panel in the Ford Explorer, it is rusted out and we will take care of that soon. It is a 1994 model, I think I'll keep it, I hit a deer a few weeks ago broadside and head on, no damage at all. BTW, I did see an Old's Trofeo at the garage my boss' brother runs. Shame to see Oldsmobile gone, Pontiac is on it's way out and Saturn is gone.

I DID “speak” with a couple of women on-line at Eharmony, but it NEVER has “gone anywhere. Few, if ANY other women out there, who are even reasonably attractive and moral and intelligent,and single—see me as Laurie does, or are willing to “put up with me or try and understand me” so...I am still alone, but NOT as alone As I used to be...

I AM on facebook, under my own name, and I am as “popular there” with my “old crowd from school” as I was before—which is to say STILL the outcast...as I figured WOULD be the case. Laurie has warned me NOT to “say too much” there...as it could “haunt me”.


Myself, dating, I don't know, I might have a possibility or two since I've gotten to know more people as I deliver parts. I'm on Facebook too, mainly keeping in contact with friends from school and family.

BTW, did you buy any HDTV converter boxes, how many channels do you get in the Cincy area? I have three, plus my aunt is giving my a fourth.
89 posted on 10/01/2009 7:39:32 PM PDT by Nowhere Man (Woodrow Wilson should have been waterboarded.)
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