I would think that the annulled wife should wear black because she was Black Listed, by the church.
I mean, when it has been pontificated that your marriage was “nada” by the Boston Bishop, shouldn’t you always wear black (like the Scarlet Letter) to remind people that your children are . . . (there is a movie out now with Brad Pitt which describes such kids)
I have respect for the Catholic Church but not when you can slick willy your way out of marriages through annulment$.
BTW I have a lot of good Catholic schooling behind be, but not half as much as Nancy Pelosi got.
I have a good friend that is on the tribunal for marriage annulments, and I asked him how hard was it to get an annulment. He said that if you fill out the paperwork, it almost always granted. The whole thing is a farce, just like the funeral service for Kennedy.