I dont want to pass judgment on Ben nor the waitress. Those 2 people are the only ones who know what happened. I am not sold on the “sport star” celebs whom we think are good guys. For all I care they could be serial rapists.
Nor do I, either way.
While the charges are different, I'm reminded of the Michael Jackson trial where his fans were outside the courthouse waving signs saying, "Michael is Innocent". How could they have possibly known that?
No one knows for sure but the principles.