What you said....mimics my own feelings and family history.
While i don’t think 50 year olds should bed 14 year old girls. Folks here act like if the woman is under 18 or even 21 then it’s horrible.
For the record, I’m 50. My is 42.
Was she brainwashed to expect you to rape her at age thirteen?
My parents and in-laws also have a five to eight year gap. However, both women were young adults when they got married -18 - and neither were forced into marriage. In fact, they were in love.