good for your sister!
My sister in law’s husband left her with two babies to raise. couldn’t get a dime of child support out of this looser. He went from state to state , working cash jobs and finally had a “slip and fall” and ended up on disability, which she did get a couple of 15$ checks from. whoooopeee!! (sarc)
Kids grow up(mom doing all the raising and supporting) and the dad secretly contacts the 17 year old online. She wanted to know her father and in her naive stupidity she kept up a contact. The father invited her six states away to live with him for her senior year in high school. My sister in law of course didn’t want her daughter to go but finally conceded.
The a-hole has the kid for a few months then decides that HE WANTS CHILD SUPPORT!! LIKE 300 $ A MONTH!!! I told sister in law that I’d go to jail first! stupid ass friend of the court thought that the fact that he owed over 40K back child support didn’t matter and she should pay. She didn’t have the money so her greedy ex proposed that she didn’t have to pay him child support if she would waive the 40K back support he owed her. She didn’t have any choice and did it....BUT MY GOD!!!! This a-hole will only have the kid for one measly year and walked away scott free!!
The system doesn’t look as though it is biased towards women to me.
men are usually the ones with the high paying careers. The women have given birth to the children, ruining their bodies and making them less appealing on the open market:) They usually have the responsibility of finishing raising the children which does put a crimp in any sort of dating.
the man can walk away and get along with a one bedroom apartment, the women usually don’t have that luxery.
men usually just keep working the job they have.
women have to go out and start a whole new career all the while trying to raise children all on their own. Most divorced men don’t seem to be all that jacked up about being there for their kids once they divorce.
at least this is what i’v seen personally.
Kinda of hard to be there for your kids when a large majority of men have a restraining order filed against them. Seems to be the second step after the divorce is filed. The wife’s lawyer will advise this as the first step in showing the bad behavior of the father.
Father can’t win. If he follows the restraining order, he can’t see his kids. If he doesn’t follow the restraining order to see his kids now, he will lose in court and possibly lose custody rights. What can the father do if the wife doesn’t let him see the kids. OK schedule a court date and another 5-6 months go by before you see your kids. Some dads just give up.
Of course there are those jerks who totally disappear and forget they have kids.
You're a real piece of work. I pay $805 a month in support for one child. I see him FOUR days a month. She cheated, she left, kept her 50k a year job and has THREE cars less than three years old in her driveway. I spent $40,000 to fight for my son. I have no say in his upbringing and it's jail for me if I have the misfortune of losing my job.
You don't know what the hell you're talking about, lady.