Concur with your view.
How about massacres that are fabricated by our enemy to create more insurgents? There was no "kill 'em all" attitude in Haditha and I don't see evidence of one on the Afghan Highway. But I see evidence, in both cases, of extremely dubious testimony by individuals who do not wish us well. I would be very careful at jumping on the massacre bandwagon and accusing our troops of creating more insurgents.