Your mother took up with a guy with this kind of history? He entered the country illegally twice - the second time after being thrown out. He was involved in drugs; he's done felony crimes. And she married him whilst in prison? If not for the green card, then why?
I don't care about his acquisition of a house and many nice things. There are many legal ways to enter the US. Why did he not take advantage of any of them over the years?
I question the judgements of all concerned. Including yours. Quandary? What quandary? I see someone who is tossing their publically stated convictions overboard. And for what?
You, sir, might be better suited to joining the Waffle Party aka the Democrats. They're much more likely to abandon ideals for the sake of immediate gratification.
He entered the country illegally twice - the second time after being thrown out
From the posting:
He came in the early 1980's legally from Honduras...