Here's what I call a good and objective Chronology of Yugoslav crisis
http://www.balkan-archive.org.yu/politics/index.html
Nice chronology of the yugoslav crisis.
Basically a list of the serbs whining about things such how some weapons made it to the bosnians despite the blockade - this at a time when men and weapons flowed across the Drina.
There is blame to go around in the Balkan wars but I'll say this much: the best thing the Croats, Muslims and Albanians had going for them was the Serbian tendency to blast away at cities and towns with exessive force.
No enemy attack hurt the Serbs as much as the images out of Vukovar, Dubrovnick (sp?), Sarajevo, Gorazde etc.