[BuddhaBoy]

Think carefully about your advice, it says more about yourself than the unfair laws you are criticizing.

No it doesnt.

I didnt mention my values at all. It says something about those who feel they have the right to determine the values of others.

Those of you who feel different, should act differerent. Isnt that simple? Those of you who feel that my advice is somehow attacking your values, should just ignore it, as it isnt for you anyway.

My advice is for those who wish to avoid the consequences of potential fraud perpetuated against them. I have no problem with those of you who wish to roll the dice. I'm not attacking differing opinions, so I see no need for some to attack mine either.

Some of us are able to see differing opinions without feeling threatened. Feeling insecure about others differing from you, says more about YOU than about me.

[Morrigan]

If the child was not his, I think he has every right to sue her. But what happens to the kid? Does he have nothing to do with the kid anymore? That, in my opinion, is a little damaging to the child. Depending on the child's age, maybe the parents could sit him/her down and explain that he is not the child's real Dad, but he would be happy to still visit the child and do things with the child.

It is really terrible when women lie about the father of their children. It shortchanges the men, certainly, but what it does to the kids is worse.

Regarding all of the comments I have seen thus far--it is both the male and female's responsibility to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. Neither party has more of an obligation than another. It is something that is equally shared. If one doesn't want children, use birth control. Women can get all kinds of birth control nowadays, and men can use condoms. Problem solved. How hard is that?