[Gunrunner2]

In the lexicon of today, "Whatever"

If the guy wishes to maintain a relationship, that is his choice, but to compell him to pay for his wife's evil deed, that is hardly fair and right.

By making the guy pay that only makes him a checkbook, no more, as long as he keeps paying everything is just peachy.

Go after the genetic father and make him pay. What's wrong with that?

I guess if one wants to be a doormat, that is a personal choice.

Hugs to all, bye (been hitting the rum early today--hic*).

[tallhappy]

I see you miss the point altogether.

A child you raise is not a pair of shoes.

It's not something to return if you find out you've got the wrong one by mistake.

I think you get it and actually are getting the point.