I know ---it's sort of like the forced welfare/charity programs we have ---the government only promotes fraud and irresponsibility when it forces one group to provide for another group with the second group not to be held accountable in any way. The Constitution never gave the government this kind of control over our lives.
This is why people are left with only the option to go along or opt-out altogether.
I can forsee a society where women are left with nothing but the dregs of society availble for marriage someday. Men with something to lose are not going to put their future's at risk under these conditions if they continue along their present path.
If you look at that disgusting "The Bachelor" show, you can see that women are already desparate for a decent man to marry. Men need to make these conditions even worse for them if they are to regain control of their futures, and can marry and father children without the threat of indentured servitude at the whim of an angry spouse.