[BuddhaBoy]

You are right, which is why men must take it upon themselves to protect themselves.

We live in a country where we no longer leave our doors and windows open at night. We need to adopt the same mentality for relationships instead of remaining victims to a system that is not at all equitable.

[Morrigan]

"Please explain why a child's life is automatically more important that the life of a grown man"

Here we go with the lily livered, whiny, selfish man rhetortic.

You know why kids' lives are more important that grown-ups? Because they are f##king kids, that's why. Grownups can take it. Kids shouldn't have to. They need to have a real childhood, and telling them things like, "Mommy was a slut, and Daddy is not really your Daddy, so sorry, you won't be seeing him anymore", is not only wrong, but evil. And if you have to be slightly uncomfortable for a few years in order to make a kid happy, oh well. I'm not saying that these guys should be forced to pay for kids that aren't theirs. What I AM saying is that ultimately lying about your child's paternity hurts your child more.

Obviously you don't have kids. Yes, the lives of my children are more important to me than a grown man's life.

So go ahead. Start whining about how you should be treated better than an innocent CHILD.