Suggesting that men who leave their wives and children for younger woman are somehow justified wasn't trashy??
Look in the mirror, sweetcakes, and see who started that whole line of discourse.
I find it quite humorous that you and other women on this thread chose to imply something in this post that wasn't there. Here is what I stated:
"There is more than one reason why men in their forties often marry women twenty years younger than them--middle aged women often have an unbearable chip on their shoulder. Who would want to spend the rest of their life with someone like that?"
I didn't say anything about married men leaving their wives and kids for younger women, much less condone that type of behavior. Indeed, I was speaking of those bachelors in their late 30's and early 40's who often choose to settle down with much younger women. I see it happen all the time in the type of neighborhood I am currently living in.