Truth is like that for those who aren't familiar with it or who fear it. As someone who recently married a woman in her forties, I can tell you that FIJC is quite correct in her assessment of many middle-aged women - they don't just have chips on their shoulders, most of them are damaged goods.
My wife thinks and acts like she's still in her 20's - except for her Christian maturity, which, even though she's only known the Lord for about 5 years, is quite beyond most of the people here on FR. She's innocent, vibrant, and undamaged - and wise in the ways of God, because she loves Him so completely. The odds of finding someone like her, in their forties, amongst the throngs of damaged know-it-all frumpets is slim to none - which is precisely why I know that she was given to me by the One who made her :)
You don't utter the slightest sound of caring for many others than yourself and those who agree with you. My Bible tells me that's wrong.
Where did you read that you are supposed to be boasrtul, proud and arrogant? I must have missed those chapters.