I was a veteran and from my experiences, we didn’t set up dates to shower together
As a veteran, I remember chatting on indoor toilets that were in rows without dividers and of course the same outdoors.
I also remember walking 70 yards exposed to the world naked with buddies to get to the water wagon showers that had no structure whatsoever, just the great blue sky and open air.
Men, nudity, and showers, I didn’t know anyone cared.