[Architect of Avalon]

Some men are complicit in a poor dynamic with women, because they refuse to require accountability from the women, instead saying “Yes dear” and “You’re right” to the women regardless of the truth of a situation.

[mountn man]

Some women are ruled by their emotions and change like the wind, and then blame the man, that he didn't meet her emotional needs.

There are 2 people involved in a marriage relationship.
2 people are required to work at it.

When I see the largest reason for divorce is "basic incompatibility", and that by far the largest pursuers of divorce are those who change THEIR rules regularly, then I don't see 2 people working at it.

There are memes for a reason. If they weren't based in a semblance of truth, then they wouldn't be funny (or memes).

The first is

We all laugh at these. But let's be honest. That is often how people act and treat the other.

When one demographic files predominantly more than the other, for "compatibility", this is what they are saying "YOU'RE wrong".

We ALWAYS hear about a womans nature and how a man needs to... blah, blah, blah.

How often do we hear about a mans nature, and how a woman needs to...?

Next is this:

What is sad is, that while men say this, their wives or other women will agree, or state it themselves.

We have women today who think life revolves around them and their wants, desires and "needs".

Memes are a good snapshot into the psyche of a society.
They are a generalization,
Not a specific.

Beware of any woman who displays this attitude.

[rollo tomasi]

There are no excuses for adultery, period by men or women. Get a divorce, but don't expose another person to potential STDs, emotional abuse, lies, manipulation, and soul rape.